I have seen situations where girls find it difficult to be
attracted to men even though they are good looking, intelligent and rich. Those who eventually come their ways are not
as a result of love but for what they can enjoy from them. Have you found yourself in this type of
situation? Do you worry that even when they are ready for a relationship, after
few outings together, they disappear?
The fact remains that every young man will look for a girl who
can form a strong partnership with him in future and when it comes to
relationship that leads to marriage, the matter is beyond beauty, riches and
intelligence.
The following are some of the traits required to make a young
girl very attractive.
1.
Have a Mind of Your Own: Men will always love a girl who can form her
own opinion and express herself in an honest and respectful way. Not a girl who
will agree and say yes to everything they say (Oh Yes Member). You must have your own goals and be sure of
what you really want to do with your life.
2.
Be Respectful: Women wants to be loved but men value respect
more than love. Given respect to others
does not mean surrendering your views or given up your right of having a different
opinion. The way you present your case
matters a lot, it will likely determine if you repel or attract the man. If you arrogantly oppose or correct
everything he says, he will feel you have no respect for him and resist your
opinion. But when you acknowledge his own
points of view first and then explain why you feel otherwise, he will accept
and value your opinion.
3.
Dress Responsibly. The way you dress says a lot about you. If you dress modestly with your body well
covered, it will send a very positive message about you. But when you dress provocatively, the message
will be loud and clear and negative. You
should also know that long before a guy starts talking to you, your dressing
has spoken volumes about you. Of course,
you must maintain good hygiene.
4. Don't Flirt. The fact that you are good looking and men flock around you is
not a license to be seen with different men all the time. Moving around with
men all the time will earn you the reputation of a flirt even when you have
nothing to do with them. You will be
viewed as such and those who have good intentions for you will be scared away.
5. Don't be in a Hurry: You should not look or act as if you are in a hurry to leave your parents’ home, have some dignity for yourself. Do not be clingy, if you are just getting to
know a man, do not expect him to give up all his freedom and become accountable
to you because you are not yet married to him and so, does not have such right. If you are in a hurry for his total
attention, you will jeopardize the relationship. Also, do not be among the women who can go
all the way, give up anything and lower their standard in order to have a man
or a husband.
Remember, how you lay your bed is how you will sleep on it. Many marital problems starts when the woman
tries to adjust the model of life she made her man believe about her
initially. It is better you keep
yourself open so that your man will make an honest decision on what to do.
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